Treating yourself is one of the biggest things
that has caught on in America’s younger generations in the past few years. When
the phrase “treat yourself” first started catching on, I wasn’t quite sure
where it came from or what people actually meant by it. Eventually, though, I
realized that the phrase and “movement” spawned simply because so many people
were too worried about others, their relationships, and how society viewed
them.
At first, everyone took it how it was
originally meant to be taken and would treat themselves to the things they
liked, the things they enjoyed and wanted to do for themselves. This was
exactly what the phrase meant to its core, and people became happier and more
self sufficient because of it.
But lately, the phrase seems to be a bit
overused and acts as an excuse to overspend, overeat, and do things that likely
aren’t too great on the psyche or everyday habits. Treat yourself has become a
way to justify buying expensive clothes, wasting money on elaborately lavish
foods, or having cardboard boxes full of candy sent to your home on a monthly
basis.
And to me, this goes against the whole point.
These things you’re treating yourself should be few and far in between as well
as something you genuinely enjoy. If an item is just a slight interest of yours
or doesn’t mean much to you, treating yourself becomes an obligation and not a
true treat, a real gift for rewarding what you’ve done for yourself in the past
week or month.
I think that’s the problem, though. People
have access to pretty much any good or service they could ask for at the tips
of their fingers thanks to subscription services that ship cardboard boxes full
of who knows what anywhere and everywhere. With such ease of access now, it’s
easy to get ahead of yourself and go overboard with spending, eating, or
anything else you do.
The saying “all good things come in
moderation” could not be truer. The more you allow yourself to do something,
the less exciting or interesting or great it feels to do. The less so, the more
you crave it. A balance is needed in pretty much every aspect of life, and so
it comes as no surprise that treating yourself should to. Just don’t get
carried away by justifying every single thing you buy and do as treating
yourself or else you’ll get sucked into the hole of the phrase it’s become.
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